Blonde,divorced, happy with my life but....... Somethings missing

Kind man with intelligence,thoughtfull and honest.
Lookind for a man who is happy to take things slow and get to know me as a person.I,m not looking for marrage,done that twice and its not for me.....But i would like a partner who will respect my need for space and not smother me with love,someone who is ready for a grown up relationship which is safe and exclusive